but is it actually beneficial? what do we gain from it? more often than not, people are too caught up in this ever-changing world to take a moment out of their hectic lives to think about things that are happening around them. as a slacker, i admit, maybe i reflect a little too much. so much so that it gets me frustrated at times.
things change, and so do people. i used to think that everybody close to me could be trusted, but ive been proven otherwise. i used to be the kind of person who thinks the best of everybody, until something is done to change that impression, and still am..hopefully. a naive way of thinking, you might say, but that's just me and i won't change myself to fit your impression of me.
it's rather unnerving how some people can change so quickly, whereas for me, i take some time to weigh my options then make a decision. maybe it's just a libran thing hah. maybe..maybe they haven't changed. just that i don't know them well enough yet to see that it's part of their nature.
some things are just beyond my comprehension, and im not gonna try to understand them, for my efforts in trying to do so would be futile.